Old songs and vacation

Thoughts on the road

The sun is shining, the road lies like a straight line through the landscape. Old music is playing on the radio giving us time to think about all and nothing. We are blessed to have four weeks of vacation this summer. By law everyone that works full time get five weeks of vacation to use per year here in Sweden. This is quite unusual in other places in the world.

We are also blessed with a good Internet connection in most areas. This means that I can wright and publish this blog without waiting to long for the connection to work. For those who live the laptop lifestyle, they can travel wherever they want in Sweden and still make a living. Not everyone has that luxury. Most people are stuck with working for someone else or are depending on others to buy their services and products from the store that they own.

We are also blessed of earning a good salary that we can live on even if we still are working for others. We can afford to own a RV and to travel for weeks in it without thinking to much about the cost. This is not always the case for people.

Pay it forward

Be kind to someone

This good life of ours makes us think about how we can pay it forward with things that matters to people. Everyone, even less fortunate people can make a different in someone’s life with a smile or a helping hand when needed. Making someone else smile, even for just a moment can make you feel good. Maybe its just the small things that matters the most. Some kindness, a friendly word or helping out to make life easier for people in need.

What if we try to do one small thing for another person every day? Wouldn’t that be a good start of paying it forward? We absolutely need to work on that, its so easy to forget when the days pass you by. We are all so busy with work, living life with all the things that come along when trying to make the best of it.

What if we all make a commitment to help and be kind to someone every day. You can come a long way to just give someone a smile, a nice compliment or a kind word. Its not that hard if you think about it but its easy to forget such a simple thing.

Be kind to yourself

If you make this commitment, don’t be too hard on yourself if you forget to take action and make someone smile. You can always start over when you remember again. That’s the best with living life, you can always start over and make better.

Always be aware, you are good enough what ever you think about yourself. Everyone has things they can change to make better by themselves but don’t do it all at once. Chose one thing and do that until it’s a habit. Then you can start with the next one. Improving yourself to be the better version of you is never wrong if its something you want to do for yourself. Don’t ever let anyone else tell you what you need to do, the only person who can do that is you. Be careful not to judge yourself though, you are good enough, smart enough and don’t let your personal mind put you down. We are always hardest on our self, most of the time. Just be kind to you and give yourself a brake sometimes. You are worth it!

Inspired of our journey?

If you feel inspired of our journey, we hope you will start your own trail forward to find your way to your daily inner smiles. If you have any questions, you are welcome to ask them, we may not have the answer but together we might find some way forward. You can use our email address with this link welcome@annastrail.com to make contact.

See yaaa all next time and remember to find your smile!

Find Your Inner Smile

Traveling without thinking

Packing the RV

The summer vacation is here, and we packed our RV for the coming trip around the north of Sweden. We where so excited, there are so many places to see in these two weeks we have planned to drive around.

There where one thing we forgot while starting our drive up north. We will not be able to drive as we are used to do. This time we have a visit from Mr. Crohn’s Disease, and he dictates how much we can put in our schedule. We have known him sense 1998 so we should have had him in mind when he comes around. We got the reminder quite fast I would say. It took two days, and then he said Hello guys, what about having some bleeding today? I will bring you some stomach pain to, just in case…

The dog running free

So, there he was, giving us some unwanted gifts. We found a beautiful place by a beach to stay the night. Instead of driving until 10 pm we stopped at about 8 pm and we got to bed early. Waking up today felt a lot better. Mr Crohn’s Disease was gone for the moment, and we enjoyed a walk on the beach while our dog could run free and play around. So peaceful morning and by 11 am we where on the road again. This is more like it, now we can enjoy every moment without rushing around like we have a fire on our asses. Sometimes we just have to be reminded to live here and now.

Snake-watch

Our daughter has agreed to hold the fort at home. She will feed the cat and take care of the snake. Most of the time there is nothing to worry about but the off course nothing comes easy. Karmeli, (the name of our snake) has started to sched. We hoped that she would have done that before we left but we were not that lucky. Then there is summer and its harder to get the right humidity she needs to have a good shed. Every day we hope the snake has made it through her transformation and got rid of her old skin. Our daughter is doing a good job to get Karmeli the best precondition to succeed changing her wardrobe.

We bought Karmeli in March this year so this is our first summer with her. We are all newbies on this snake-journey, and it is fascinating to learn about what a snake needs to thrive. She is eating well, pieing and pooping as she should so it seems we do something right by her. We also have great support from the breeder whenever we need.

Support and mentors in life

Finding support

When you learn new things its important so have a lot of support and you can find mentors from a lot of different places. Like when you have your first child, you might have a friend, a mother or father to consult whenever you have questions. There will always come a time where you come across things you haven’t handled before, where you need some guidance or someone to teach you the skills you need to move on.

Support and mentoring can be given from anyone and sometimes you are the one giving guidance to someone else. Often, we give support without thinking about it. When your child grows up you will guide and teach them to put their clothes on, teaching them to eat, walk and to talk. This usually comes naturally for a parent. Even when we get to adulthood, we need mentors that can show us the way. Like when we get a new job, the co-workers guide you forward when learning all the new things you have to know about the new environment and new systems you come across.

Life is filled with learning new things; it doesn’t stop when you are getting older. The world is always changing, and we change with it, whether we want to or not.

Inspired of our journey?

If you feel inspired of our journey, we hope you will start your own trail forward to find your way to your daily inner smiles. If you have any questions, you are welcome to ask them, we may not have the answer but together we might find some way forward. You can use our email address with this link welcome@annastrail.com to make contact. See yaaa all next time and remember to find your smile!